One cannot become something what one is not.
- Sri Bhagavan
You can only be yourself. How can u become someone else other than what you originally are. It’s a futile effort, in the inner world...
Accepatance is the key to balance & happiness. If u r constantly insecure & unhappy with what you are & try to change things in the inside world, life becomes more miserable & you would create more problems for yourself.
You are made in a particular way by the Universe, by Life & by God. How can you move away from yourself, it’s like running away from your shadow. U cannot succeed.
What this game of the mind trying to change you & also trying change the other; Parents, friends, children etc. relax & allow life to help you become a happier human being, to rise above all pain & experience freedom.